perf(files_reminders): Reduce db queries on propfind #18194

Job	Run time
changes	2s
integration-sqlite (capabilities_features, 8.1, main)	1m 41s
integration-sqlite (collaboration_features, 8.1, main)	2m 28s
integration-sqlite (comments_features, 8.1, main)	1m 45s
integration-sqlite (dav_features, 8.1, main)	5m 35s
integration-sqlite (features, 8.1, main)	9m 43s
integration-sqlite (federation_features, 8.1, main)	5m 17s
integration-sqlite (--tags ~@large files_features, 8.1, main)	11m 44s
integration-sqlite (filesdrop_features, 8.1, main)	1m 27s
integration-sqlite (file_conversions, 8.1, main)	1m 44s
integration-sqlite (openldap_features, 8.1, main)	1m 41s
integration-sqlite (openldap_numerical_features, 8.1, main)	59s
integration-sqlite (ldap_features, 8.1, main)	2m 20s
integration-sqlite (remoteapi_features, 8.1, main)	1m 50s
integration-sqlite (setup_features, 8.1, main)	1m 28s
integration-sqlite (sharees_features, 8.1, main)	3m 58s
integration-sqlite (sharing_features, 8.1, main)	14m 1s
integration-sqlite (videoverification_features, 8.1, main)	3m 26s
integration-sqlite-summary	4s
	1h 11m 13s

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